How Well Do You Know Your Partner? A Free Game to Find Out
To find out how well you know your partner, ask each other questions with two answers and guess which one the other will pick. In This or That on GameLake both of you pick, both of you guess, and you get a score at the end, with no account and no download. Play on one phone or online, even long distance.
How the game works
- Each round shows a question with two answers, for example Sweet or salty?
- You pick the one you like more. Your pick stays secret.
- Then you guess which one your partner picked.
- Both picks are revealed together. Each correct guess is a point for the guesser.
Eight rounds take about five minutes. Every round also tells you whether you picked the same thing, which is its own kind of score.
What your score means
There is no failing in this game: Hops always points out one thing worth talking about.
| Score | What it says |
|---|---|
| Almost everything right | You finish each other's sentences. Keep playing: there are 100 questions and a new Daily 5 every day. |
| More than half | You know each other well, and a few answers surprised you. Great material for dinner. |
| Less than half | Lots to discover, which is a good thing. Pick the answer that surprised you most and ask about it. |
Do not use the score to prove a point. The most useful result is a wrong guess, because it shows something you did not know.
12 questions to try
A few from the game's five packs (everyday, date night, travel, food and dreams). The full set is in our list of 100 This or That questions.
- Tea or Coffee?
- Being an early bird or a night owl?
- Planning everything or going with the flow?
- A handwritten note or a voice message?
- A surprise party or a quiet celebration?
- Dinner out or cooking together?
- Stargazing or city lights?
- A week on the beach or a week in a big city?
- Going by train or going by plane?
- Pizza or burgers?
- Sweet or salty?
- Being able to fly or being invisible?
Play it together, wherever you are
On the same sofa, choose Same phone and pass it over once per round. Far apart, choose Online, tap Play a friend and Create table, and send your partner the link. Either way you can also try the Daily 5. For more ideas, see games for couples and card games for couples.
Frequently asked questions
How can I test how well I know my partner?
Ask each other questions with two answers and guess the other's pick. GameLake's This or That does it for you: both of you pick, both guess, and you see a score at the end.
Is there a free how well do you know your partner game?
Yes. This or That on GameLake is free, needs no download and no account, and works on one phone or online with a link.
What are good how well do you know your partner questions?
Questions with two close answers work best, such as sweet or salty, train or plane, planning everything or going with the flow, a surprise party or a quiet celebration.
Can we play how well do you know me long distance?
Yes. Choose Online, create a table and send the link. Both players pick and guess on their own screens and the answers appear at the same time.
What is a good score?
Any score is fine. A high score means you know each other well; a low score means you have a lot to talk about. The game never calls a result a loss.